that sucks but you write about it so beautifully...yano in china they get a day off after a breakup...tho i think you need the distraction of work to help you...xxx more…
It's horrible, those feelings. And you think you're getting over it and feeling better, and then you end up back down where you were all over again. Ooops, I'm a little ray of sunshine aren't I?
Thanks for commenting on my blog. The reason some women dump nice blokes and stay with bastards is because they are addicted to adrenalin rus more…
Glad you like it! Thanks for your support. The blog is actually based on something real, but I change names, places and other things to make it a better story for a blog. More novel like story... I prefer it to the regular "I-form" of blogs. Anyway, the pain and the feelings are real.
well written rendition of a very painful moment!
Some pointers from one who has been down that track -
one day at a time ... don't shut your friends out, remember you are OK and don't do anything silly
the pain heals with time, be kind to yourself
Jesus, life can be a bitch when it comes too the ones we love. I'm sorry. Know that their are others out there who are dealing with the same shit....sometimes worse. Not that makes it any easier because each individual deals with and feels differently too the next.
I hate it. This kind of bollocks sucks but I'm a firm believer in whatever doe more…
I know you're going through hell at the moment, but if that's how she feels, better that she goes now than further down the line.
Staying in a relationship that isn't working for you isn't good for either party.
When I was 20 I broke off my engagement because I didn't feel it was right for me, but after a month I was so lonely and miser more…
I felt the same. First,it takes time to realise. Then, you are in total despair. No hunger, no sleep, no will to do anything,... Well, more to come on this in my coming posts. So, keep looking. more…
yes, i know the feeling of asking yourself, "why?", "why us?", "why me?". i mean, as if when everything is going well or when change is going to happen, why change the "US?" more…
Maybe some people don't have the courage to confront their problems...maybe it's easier to leave alone than sitting down and just talk about them.
And as I was reading your comment, I feel like when he leave (as well) a sms in my mobile. I was sleeping happily, as we met that day (3rd July...) and we had a lovely walk. Nothing was wron more…
Recent comments (16)
In response to: "The Morning After" 430 days old
by take-me-away [Member]
that sucks but you write about it so beautifully...yano in china they get a day off after a breakup...tho i think you need the distraction of work to help you...xxx more…
In response to: "A long sleepless night" 441 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
Don't worry dear everything will be alright. more…
In response to: "A long sleepless night" 442 days old
by la_spice [Member]
I remember those feeling only too well! :) more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 446 days old
by sidejump [Member]
so talk to her, or have you already? more…
In response to: "Hard landing" 447 days old
by whoknows [Member]
It's horrible, those feelings. And you think you're getting over it and feeling better, and then you end up back down where you were all over again. Ooops, I'm a little ray of sunshine aren't I?
Thanks for commenting on my blog. The reason some women dump nice blokes and stay with bastards is because they are addicted to adrenalin rus more…
In response to: "Hard landing" 447 days old
by JellyHeart [Member]
Hi Lulu,
Glad you like it! Thanks for your support. The blog is actually based on something real, but I change names, places and other things to make it a better story for a blog. More novel like story... I prefer it to the regular "I-form" of blogs. Anyway, the pain and the feelings are real.
Keep visiting and invite some more…
In response to: "Hard landing" 447 days old
by lulugal [Member]
well written rendition of a very painful moment!
Some pointers from one who has been down that track -
one day at a time ... don't shut your friends out, remember you are OK and don't do anything silly
the pain heals with time, be kind to yourself
love you're blog!
more…
In response to: "Hard landing" 448 days old
by joebangles [Member]
It's another day tomorrow, a brand new one, it will be better.
We all need to feel sorry for our selves now and again. more…
In response to: "Hard landing" 448 days old
by desiflychick [Member]
awww that sucks!! What makes it worse is that nothing can make u feel any better, but time will reveal all! (Hopefully) x more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 449 days old
by MarlaSinger [Member]
Jesus, life can be a bitch when it comes too the ones we love. I'm sorry. Know that their are others out there who are dealing with the same shit....sometimes worse. Not that makes it any easier because each individual deals with and feels differently too the next.
I hate it. This kind of bollocks sucks but I'm a firm believer in whatever doe more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 449 days old
by isitjustme [Member]
Oh my God, that's so horrible. Hug? more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 449 days old
by Melinda_blog [Member]
I know you're going through hell at the moment, but if that's how she feels, better that she goes now than further down the line.
Staying in a relationship that isn't working for you isn't good for either party.
When I was 20 I broke off my engagement because I didn't feel it was right for me, but after a month I was so lonely and miser more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 449 days old
by JellyHeart [Member]
That's is bad indeed. You spend ages asking yourself what is going on and trying to find the reasons. more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 449 days old
by JellyHeart [Member]
I felt the same. First,it takes time to realise. Then, you are in total despair. No hunger, no sleep, no will to do anything,... Well, more to come on this in my coming posts. So, keep looking. more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 449 days old
by awayfromhome [Member]
yes, i know the feeling of asking yourself, "why?", "why us?", "why me?". i mean, as if when everything is going well or when change is going to happen, why change the "US?" more…
In response to: "An unfortunate text message" 450 days old
by Mnesika [Member]
Maybe some people don't have the courage to confront their problems...maybe it's easier to leave alone than sitting down and just talk about them.
And as I was reading your comment, I feel like when he leave (as well) a sms in my mobile. I was sleeping happily, as we met that day (3rd July...) and we had a lovely walk. Nothing was wron more…